Capacities deserves its reputation. The object model is genuinely thoughtful: people, books, meetings, and ideas each get their own type, and the design around them is calm and pleasant to use. If modeling your knowledge feels like part of the thinking, few tools do it with as much care. Most people who consider leaving are not leaving because Capacities is bad. They are leaving because of what the model asks of them.
The friction is the model itself. Every save invites a decision: what type is this, which properties does it need, where should it link. That is rewarding for deliberate notes and heavy for the everyday stream of links, screenshots, and half-formed thoughts. When saving something takes thought, some things never get saved. And your library lives in the Capacities cloud, which not everyone is comfortable with for a personal archive.
Mindly removes both decisions. One shortcut, ⌘M, captures notes, links, PDFs, files, screenshots, and voice, and AI tags, summarizes, and connects each save on its own. There are no types to choose and no properties to fill in. Your library lives in a folder on your Mac, exportable to standard formats, with no account needed. The structure still emerges. You just do not have to build it.